Saturday, November 21, 2009

Thanksgiving

The First Thanksgiving by Jennie Augusta Brownscombe


For each new morning with its light,
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food, for love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends.
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


The origami turkeys are made, and gaze down upon us in my classroom from where they've perched. (On a paper chain, tied by their feathers, poor things.)


The meal is arranged at my mother's who wants to host it before we get to the place where she can't. It will be without my brother and his family this time, because he won't commit until the last minute whereupon he arrives pissed off. About something, who knows what?


My husband and I will greet before the Thanksgiving service at our church Thursday morning, while all the turkeys are roasting in ovens across Illinois and the whole United States.


So, everything's in place. There's a lot to do, certainly, for the feast, but it's all planned. And I'm wondering what I can say about Thanksgiving that's fresh and new. One of the quotes I read said, "It's "We stole your land and killed all your people day~Let's celebrate!" but that seems to fall far short of any sentiment I want to hang on to. Even though it is rather apt.


Neither do I want to fall into the obligatory sentiments of: I'm thankful for my home, my family, my job" stated off of rote memorization from when we began in Kindergarten.


I think the sentiment I want to express the most is that thankfulness should be expressed on every day, not just the fourth Thursday of every November. Some days are harder than others to be thankful for: the day that my student, Jacob, lost his mother to cancer is not a thankful one for him. The day my son lost is own father is not a thankful one for him. But, overall, I think we have to look for joy and thankfulness in every small (or big) thing, and add them up until they are overflowing like a feast in our hearts.


In blog world? There are lots of things that frustrate me: I would like to visit, and comment, much more than I do. I would like to take pressure off myself and just post when I had a brilliant insight. Which wouldn't be all that often.


But, I love the connection I've established with you. I love being requested to review marvelous books I'd never have found on my own. I love hosting the Japanese Literature Challenge and there again, learning so much more than I ever knew from every one's reviews. I love the anticipation for Christmas which is already building with the establishment of the Advent Blog Tour, The Book Bloggers Holiday Swap, the Persephone Secret Santa. I love receiving an unexpected card in the mail like a comment in real life. I love the way that the book blogging world has expanded and enriched my world.


So, I give thanks this week for you, my friends, among all the other great blessings in my life.

14 comments:

  1. What a lovely post! We, in the blogging world, are thankful for you too.

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  2. I think your Thanksgiving musings are totally unique and so YOU Bellezza! I too am thankful to have found this new world of blogging and to have found you!

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  3. I am very thankful I have found the blogging world and I am thankful for the new world of reading the Japanese Literature 3 challenge has opened up to me-

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  4. do we have the same brother? maybe we are secretly related. :)

    I am also thankful for the blogging world and the friends that I have met. And I am thankful that I found your blog because I have read books I never would have and have thoroughly enjoyed them!!!

    Have a blessed Thanksgiving!!

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  5. Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. Christmas is a close second, but for me, thankfully, Thanksgiving is so low key and relaxing, and delicious. It's the best.

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  6. This is a strange Thanksgiving for me. With so much to be grateful for - so much for which I truly am grateful - I'm simply not "feeling" grateful.

    I'm distressed about so many things on a national level, and by the societal disintegration I see around me. Your words are a timely reminder to take a breath, remember the historical roots of this most unusual holiday, and trust that some new "Mayflower compact" may keep us from tearing one another apart like just one more turkey carcass.

    See? Not so terribly cheerful. But I'm thankful nonetheless - especially for your wisdom and faith. Happy Thanksgiving!

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  7. Shoreacres, I am always incrediably touched by your comments. You leave such insight into your heart, or thoughts, and always give me something to think about.

    Without going into too much detail about our "national issues" I think a few people in my family are probably going to die of stress and heart failure due to the leaders we currently have. I worry, too, but I know that there's nothing I can do about it, and as you say, I believe that there's a plan for us. So, I take comfort in that.

    But, there is no comfort I can take for the those individuals who are suffering, such as you posted on your blog a little while back. I feel a tiny bit less powerless there as my husband and I tithe an extraordinary amount of our income to those in need. "There by the grace of God go I," really.

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  8. It is so low key and relaxing, and natural and real. I love how commercialism hasn't seemed to find Thanksgiving yet, even though the Christmas ads begin in earnest right after Halloween. Thank goodness there's nothing we have to buy for Thanksgiving but food, and then share it with one another. (There's nothing worse than a guilt present at Christmas time: when someone gives something because they feel they 'have to'. Ick.)

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  9. Sara, I thought I was alone in my "affliction"! It's comforting to know you suffer a similar situation. At 45, on his part, I surely thought things would have changed by now.

    I'm so glad that I found you, too. I give you books, you give me faith strengthening, we need each other. There aren't many people with whom I share faith in my life, just my family and my friendi down the street (besides the fellowship at church) so that means a lot to me on our blogs.

    Have a blessed Thanksgiving, too, and let's not let the turkeys get us down! ;)

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  10. Sandy, you and Bermudonion are such faithful commenters. You hold up the blogging community with your visits and interaction. Thank you for all you both give.

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  11. Mel, you have absolutely astounded me in all the Japanese literature you have read. I think by now you've quadrupled most of us, and I just love how you've taken this challenge and run with it. Thank you for your enthusiasm and participation!

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  12. Ah, my dear friend. Leave it to you to write the most beautiful and heartfelt Thanksgiving post.

    In the wake of all the pain and sadness you and I have experienced, there are certainly days when it's very difficult to be thankful. But I truly do have so much in my life that brings me joy and happiness. I have four wonderful parents, the best husband I could ever wish for, a beautiful and happy daughter, a beautiful and smart granddaughter, a loyal and silly dog, and more friends than I could ever imagine. I have my dream job of working in a bookstore. I have a cozy home that gives me comfort and security. Other than my increasingly forgetful memory and creaky knees, I have my health. I really want for nothing. Nothing material that is.

    So during this Thanksgiving week, and always, I am thankful for the friendship we share. I send hugs your way and hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving day with your family. And lucky you! You don't have to work on Friday. :)

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  13. I am so with you on the creaky knees and forgetful memory, phew! It's good to take joy in all the blessings we do have, though, and they are many. XOXO on your Thanksgiving feast and weekend, and may the customers be kind to you as the holidays commence.

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  14. I am most thankful for you as well, Bellezza. I cannot imagine my blogging life without you as you enrich it so. I appreciate all that you do and get so much encouragement from your site. Even though it is a few days early I wish you a most happy Thanksgiving!!!

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